I have been dating a divorced guy for nearly two years. Last spring he tried to start an affair with a woman he met in the Caribbean. When that didn’t work, he came crawling back. Now he is pursuing a divorce lawyer affiliated with this site, so beware, any of you young-ish female divorce lawyers who have recently been approached by a fit, good-looking 60 year-old with youngish kids (for his age). He may come across as attentive and smooth, but wait until the devaluation phase when you do not want to give him what he wants (your money, your status etc.). He of course constantly blame-shifts, has an out-of-control temper and is a serial liar. You should know this for your own well-being.