My heart goes out for you, My wife decided to leave me for her childhood friend on valentines day and only 4 days before our 13th anniversary. But please don’t torture yourself over this as he made the decision to leave you and it can never be the same after leaving. I thought i was going to be with my wife forever as we had the pact we made on our wedding day that “I will not leave you” “If you don’t leave me” It was a simple pact that we cherished but her heart wasn’t in the relationship after she started chatting with her friend back in the UK and found out he was single again, I guess these 13 years was just keeping herself busy while waiting on him to be free.
It hurts i know and wish there was more to do but if they can just leave for someone else it can never be the same again.