Family vacation. yes. In 20+ years, he NEVER suggested going anywhere tropical for a vacation. In fact, he was always against it, even though I would have loved to travel. Claimed we could have enough fun and relaxation in our local area. Well, he just spent a year working out of province (and yes, I do believe he was cheating while he was away) and when his job was almost completed he started really pushing for a carribean family vacation. We have been home for a few weeks now, but I am waiting for the other shoe to drop any day.