weve been married for almost 11 years. My husband told me he has love for me but isnt in love with me. He told me I deserved better and to be with a guys who loves me unbelievably. But everything he does by supporting me and my decisions, Being there for me, I mean he shows signs he is in love with me, but theres another girl. She told me he doesnt love me and he wants to break up. He hasnt said such things to me just that he wants me to be happy. FYI: I have known about her (she was a friend) and have just let it play out. (Please no judging, it is who my husband is) but this was a huge blow. He doesnt see that he is in love with me hes just bored because that spark is gone and he now has it with her. Is there anything I can do or should I just sit back and continue watching? Im 27 and hes 31