He left me 7 months ago after 22 years. I knew something was off months before he left but when I repeatedly asked, he blamed it on work stress. Then one day I got the call that permanently altered my life forever. It was From another woman’s husband saying they’d been carrying on an affair for a year and he thought I should know. I was in shock. For days and then months, I just couldn’t believe the man I loved and trusted most had been leading a double life. I thought we could work to maybe get through this after he said he ended it. Well, no surprise to anyone but me I guess, 7 months ago, I discovered it was still going on and he left. lol these mo the later…..Every now and then just when I think I’m feeling a little stronger, something happens and I’m right back to ground zero. I just want you to know that a man has it in his character to cheat or he doesn’t. You can’t change that. Find someone better.