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Lucy
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He left me 7 months ago after 22 years.     I knew something was off months before he left but when I repeatedly asked,  he blamed it on work stress.   Then one day I got the call that permanently altered my life forever.  It was From another woman’s husband saying they’d been carrying on an affair for a year and he thought I should know.    I was in shock.  For days and then months, I just couldn’t believe the man I loved and trusted most had been leading a double life.  I thought we could work to maybe get through this after he said he ended it.       Well, no surprise to anyone but me I guess, 7 months ago,  I discovered it was still going on and he left.    lol these mo the later…..Every now and then just when I think I’m feeling a little stronger, something happens and I’m right back to ground zero.   I just want you to know that a man has it in his character to cheat or he doesn’t.   You can’t change that.  Find someone better.