James…
The best advice I can give you is i am sorry for what you are going through. Its not fair. This is like having a death in the family but it is the loss of your marriage and unfortunately you have to go through the same grieving process. It stinks!!! I hope you have lots of friends and family support. Seek out counseling…they have such amazing insight. Please have hope that each day will get a little easier. Again I’m so sorry for what you are going through.
Sharon