stuart, I have been in your situation, and I can absolutely promise you that you will get past this. If possible, gather your friends and keep them close. They will help you more than you realize. I am 64, and have witnessed and experienced betrayal throughout my life. Picture yourself as a person who is a warrior in life, and you will end up on top of this situation. You will get your legs back under you soon if you picture yourself happy in 6 months. Good luck and God Bless