October 15, 2020 at 4:20 pm

I have been divorced from my Narcissist, cheating ex for 7 years now. He left for a 19 year old & has since married her & had more kids. While he was moving on with his life, I was picking up the pieces & focused 100% of my time on our teenage daughters. I have always been very civil with him for my girls. Him and his new wife & kids have been to my house for dinner, etc. I have always sacrificed my own feelings for my daughters. I wanted them to have the most normal life possible. Two months ago my 16 year old stormed out of my house & said that she was moving in with her dad because I was asking too many questions about a trip she was going on with her friends to Florida. When she left, I figured she would be back in a few days. Well she has never returned to my house, nor will she even speak to me. I am completely devastated. We have always had a close relationship, so I am in complete shock. Sometimes I wish I were a bad mom because I would at least be able to make sense of all of this. The only thing that I can see is that my ex has zero rules & buys her whatever she wants. The first week she was there, he bought her new bedroom furniture. I am hurt, angry, and slipping into depression. Has anyone else been through this?