You often hear the term “resilience” in the context of getting back up when you’ve been knock them down.
But this word has two meanings and the second one – as it pertains to flexibility – is particularly relevant for divorcing or divorced people.
Consider being flexible with your body in a gym like environment….
If u try to do a new stretch, right away you will find it is painful and uncomfortable.
But if u keep at it, over time you will find yourself contorting into new shapes with greater ease and clarity.
The learning comes from the practise it takes to be patient and persevere and the outcome is the newly found love for the position and shape you’ve created
Let’s move this analogy to divorce…. and look at the failure of your marriage as life’s way of giving you an opportunity to stretch yourself
If you practise, you will find you are able to bend with the forces when they are thrown your way.
Just think about it…. The Angels
