Girl cheated with my dad( I’m 1,000% sure but she will take it to her grave
June 16, 2025 at 5:16 am
Cheating—- this story is long but I’ll try to keep it short. I have been with the same girl since 10th grade (were 30yo now) and she has cheated on me with 4 different guys that I know for a fact about because I got solid evidence and she ended up admitting it. I’m gonna seem like a POS but I gotta give the whole story. When I was 14, my dads girlfriend came onto me and we starting sleeping together. This lasted until I got with my girlfriend. I started drugs at a very early age and my dad’s girlfriend came was also buying me drugs.fast forward to 10th grade where I put a stop to Messing with dads Gf and started dating the girl we will call Mia. Shortly after I turned 18 I told my older brother Rupert about what went on between me and my dad girlfriend when I was 14-15. Of course he told my dad. My dad completely blamed me and only me and cast me out of his life and wouldn’t allow me to speak to me younger brothers or come to the family property he even stayed with the girl for 3 more years after he found out. Fast forward. I’m 23yo getting ready to go on vacation to Florida. Mias 19yo sister wanted to come with us and we agreed to let her come. Somewhere along the way, a threesome gets brought up in a joking manner (obviously without the 2 sisters ever touching each other..) we get to Florida and the threesome happens. Wasnt all that great but still happened not only with my gfs full permission but she was pushing hard for it “to spice things up” when we get home i guess it starts sinking in mias and she was upset and filled with regret and now thinks I don’t love her and all this. So in a nutshell she lost her shit and we had to take a break. Well it just so happened that at that time me and my dad worked a couple kinks out of our relationship and started talking a little bit and I was renting one of the trailers on his property. So she was “hurt” and started confiding in my dad a lot. They started spending wayyy too much time together. After a while they we’re inseparable and wouldn’t leave each others side. Smoking weed together. Drinking. Hanging out from dark to dark together.i became suspicious and put cameras up outside my house because they both had motive and desire to pay me back, dad for sleeping with his girlfriend when I was a teenager and Mia for her sister.my dad worked nights, Mia didn’t work at all. So while I would be at work during the day I started keeping an eye on cameras and for about 4 months, every single morning like clockwork, my dad would show up at 7:30-8:00am,knock on the door and she would open it with her hair wet because she had just gotten out of the shower ( which she had never done that early before. He would come inside where I didn’t have cameras and leave an hour – hour and a half later. Then later that day she would jump in the car and go up the hill where he lived and not come back u til right before I would get home from work. My dad stopped speaking to me all at once for no reason at all out of the blue. Avoided me at all costs. Wouldn’t make eye contact with me when we passed each other in the driveway. He wouldnt step foot anywhere near my house while I was home but was always there everyday when I was at work. It got to a point where I knew what was gong on so I started calling her out on it. Of course she denied it and played the “he’s like a father to me” card. Anyways for months I accused her and for months the evidence became more concrete and a lot more added up. She was texting him dirty messages- example (hey can you ride me to the store? 😉”) she was sending him pretty selfies of herself. Texting him things like “ok I love you so much 🥰😘 and just for context my dad is and always has been a true full blown sex addict. One day he asked her to go with him to pick up a brand new Harley Davidson and I invited myself (which I could see the disappointment in their faces when I did but I went anyway) so after he bought the Harley (he gave $45,000 for, he got about halfway home and we stopped for a red light and without asking or saying a word he puts the kickstand down and walks back to my car and opens the passenger door where I was at and said you drive it the rest of the way home? He never even met me ride his POs Honda shadow that was worth maybe $3k. So I jump on the bike and I look back and he is switching places with her and now he is in the drivers seat of my car and she is passenger. I know what was going on . They made sure to stay atleast a half mile behind me at all times so I couldn’t see them in my mirror or if I slowed down they would have time to do what they needed to do. So her car broke down and she needed a car so he loaned her the me of his and was giving her gas money to run around for a while but after a few weeks she met someone else and started sleeping with him and when my dad found out he threw a jealous fit and took her car from her. That’s when it all started falling apart for them. A few weeks later they’re constantly fighting about stupid stuff and he’s starting to fight with me for no reason. Anyway I was the name on his lease and laying the rent but she was still staying with me at that time but he waited til I went to work one day and drive down to my house and told her we were evicted to pack up and leave. He told HER not me. So I found a new place and she lives with me but I can’t help it bay every once in a while I start thinking back to all the things that happened and all the weird ways they were acting bc and the selfies and texts and time spent together and I start hounding her and she never had any good explanation at all she just walks away and closes a door and acids my questions s at all costs. Obviously there is more to the story but I just want peoples opinion . Was she sleeping with him?
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