Give up or wait?
July 8, 2024 at 12:48 am
My husband of 21 years is having an affair with someone who was suppose to be my friend. This is his second affair ever and they have both happened within a few months. One was a one night stand. He says he wants to separate and has moved in with her but doesn’t want a divorce. He says he has feelings for her but he loves me. He still comes over and says he’s in love with me still but is afraid to work on us out of fear of hurting me again. The worst part is we work together and have kids together. Is it bad that I don’t want to give up on him? He looks so lost and confused. He says he doesn’t know what’s wrong with him. But he’s showing signs of a midlife crisis. Do I give up on my best friend or hold out for him to snap out of whatever is going on? I just want what’s best for our children.
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