Hidden credit card statements and secret withdrawals may be signs your significant other is cheating on you, but not necessarily in the bedroom.
More people are now deceiving, or being deceived, by their partner about purchases, debts incurred, money earned or other joint financial issues. In 2014, Self.com and Today.com conducted a survey of almost 24,000 men and women and found that almost 50% of married adults admitted to keeping money secrets from their spouses.
The reality is, more people cheat financially on their partner than sexually.
Let’s be clear, financial infidelity is cheating. Just because it doesn’t involve sneaking off to have a clandestine sexual encounter, it does involve lies and secrets that can devastate a relationship.
Financial Infidelity, Investigation HotlineSome of the warning signs of financial infidelity include a partner who wants to control all of the finances, suspicious withdrawals from bank accounts, constant changing of the subject when money is being discussed or insisting upon having separate credit card accounts.
There are a few ways you can protect yourself and your relationship from financial infidelities that can destroy a marriage.
Disclose all money owed upfront.
Setup a monthly meeting to discuss finances.
Both partners should be involved in all major financial decisions.
Limit individual accounts (bank, credit, etc.) and make them joint.
It is very important to try to identify financial infidelity as early as possible in a relationship since recovering from it can be difficult, if not impossible.
If you suspect your spouse is cheating, you can confront him or her immediately, however, in most cases, your spouse will most likely deny that he or she is cheating. So what next? If you still suspect that he or she is cheating on you, the answer would be to seek the services of a private investigator to get the proof you need.
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tommy
Well, its not my spouse, it’s my mom. She always hides to call someone. I hate what she is doing. I already know the phone number of the other man and some information. She always denies it and gets very mad. I need more proofs, that will be impossible to deny. It quite hurts, the way your own mother is acting. It’s also disgusting. Well, I guess I got off the topic. I wanted to know if the information of a cell phone can be transferred to some other device, to be viewed. Thank you, the information was helpful,contact him in gmail with this address [email protected]..he will surely help out like he did for me
jessica
I agree that if you plan to stay with a cheater don’t try to find any information. However, in my case I needed it in my state in order to file for a divorce and come out of the relationship. You can’t just say I think courts want proof or you end up spending a lot of time and money to fight it out! Finding out was hard, but I was relieved that I wasn’t crazy and it’s making my divorce go a lot smoother. He would never confess; therefore, I did the best thing for me…find out, no doubt, move on!!!contact [email protected]..he’s a professional and will surely help you out,tell him from Jes
mary
Hi everyone , i’m Mary i want to use this opportunity to share my experience with you and to use this medium to tell everyone about Jack my savior. I’ve been seeing this guy for 6yrs and been spending all my money on him not knowing he has been making a fool out of me and scamming me. Thank God for Jack who helped me discover what I’ve been blind to see these couple of years , he was able to help hack into his phone without him knowing and all he requested for was his phone number. I got to discover a lot of things he has been hiding from me including a secret bank account that he opened with the woman he has been cheating on me with. I’m not ashamed to say this because I know a lot of people out there need this too. You can contact him on this..