I toss then I shift, restlessly looking for a comfortable side. Pillow like walls packed in a tight embrace secure the perimeter making it safe to breathe. The nightly troops…
One of the hardest things to hear from a client is “My marriage is ending”! Unfortunately there have been times when I was told about it before the partner or…
I’ve been married for 15 years. Happily for 10 years. Unhappily for the last 5. It was a little over 6 months ago when she came through the door and…
There’s a story I often share in the hopes that it inspires and empowers others. I call it: Reframing your thoughts to create the best life yet. It’s about how my…
You are planning to leave your marriage. Or, your spouse announces his decision to end the relationship. Questions swirl. Anger and sadness compete. You need advice. Good advice should be…
My wife and I finally divorced 3 years ago. Not to sound cliché but yes it was a difficult process. For 4 years we fought hard. She wanted everything. Not…
“Scars remind us where we’ve been, they don’t have to dictate where we are going” Unknown By the time most separated couples get to the stage where a separation agreement…
I will never forget the conversation that took place on our couch. It was like a bachelor episode. It started with “You are a great person.” “You mean the world to…
The constant in life is change, yet we are frantically determined to hang on to the peopleand things we love. After a divorce or life transition the awareness of this…